reinstall ports with new options

[maillist at computerking.ca (RYAN vAN GINNEKEN)]

I am reinstalling some ports and need new options namely cyrus sasl2 
think i remember there being a nice screen that poped up asking which 
pulgins i want but i cannot get to this screen again. I only want the 
pwcheck plugin to authenticate with postfix.  Have tried
make clean
make distclean
make
make install

The port installed fine but i got no options screen or errors about 
having the port already installed you know the usual one about do a make 
deinstall then make reinstall